Wednesday, May 27, 2009

In which I request reprieve….

As an avid reader, I understand the frustration when you go to a favorite blog page and find its not been updated. I know the “ugh” feeling, the “what on earth is the problem for the love of pete! surely she can’t have anything better to do!” feeling.
The neglected masses, you and I, respectively, weep at the sloth which inhibits a good posting.

Truth is, aside from that dash of a post giving off a jar o jelle, I don’t have a lot to say these days. Shocking, I know, given my propensity to blather on and on about NOTHING. How drole.

So I’m giving this/you/me a break, until I have something more to offer. Until maybe after I’ve had a vacation and can write something decent and suitable for public consumption.

For those who find me on Facebook, never fear- I’ll continue to fascinate  with my wit and eloquence there with random twitter-like posts.

Oh and Nieves, that jar of apricot jelle is SO YOURS.

Peace out home-skillet.

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Thursday, May 21, 2009

Giveaway Goods:


Made lovingly by my dear 85 year old granny, with Truchas apricots from our very own trees. Simple ingredients- sugar, organic apricots, jel-stuff, and possibly some pineapple.
Packaged in a beautiful vessle, bubbled and sent post haste to the lucky winner of this giveaway anniversaire extrordinaire!

Also, yours truly is throwing in a copy of “Chicken Fluff and Other Stuff” which contains two short stories I wrote about growing up in a small northern NM town.

How to win such awesomeness? Comment, comment, comment (include an email address so I can contact you and get the particulars.)
 I will use a random generator to pick a winner, winners will be notified by June 15.

Happy Posting!

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Friday, May 8, 2009

Ah Internet, spring has finally arrived in the world that belongs to The Mind of Melis. It’s about damn time. So between blue skies, warm winds, sweet lilacs and the brand spankin new Star Trek movie, life is pretty good.

Also, may I say, that this weekend, marks the anniversary of Mind of Melis! What a fabulous thing, to have been blogging for a year. I mean, I am a total baby when it comes to blogging– but one whole year people! That’s an accomplishment- especially in light of recent creative blocks and a case of laziness of the most horrible kind… But! Huzzah!

To celebrate my anniversary, I’m hosting a giveaway! I’ve wanted to giveaway something for a long time now but could never figure out what, and well…. what will it be you ask? Something wonderful?

Yes, dear reader, beloved internet. SOMETHING WONDERFUL. I will be procuring said wonderfullness this evening.
STAY TUNED for more details, and you know, have a good weekend!

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Thursday, April 23, 2009

You asked for it…

I’ve not posted in a while, and I’m starting to receive complaints.

Thing is, I’ve kinda hit a bit of a writers block lately. Maybe writers block  isn’t the right word. Creative block.
BUT as I was walking to work this morning, I saw a roly poly, and it got me thinking about a post…but, I will warn you reader, I’ve already done my due diligence by informing you of my creative block. I make no promises on the actual creative merit of this post.

See, every morning I walk 3 blocks to my office. On the way, this time of year, I get to feel the sun on my face and hear the birds singing, and it’s a really good way to refocus after an hour long commute.
And there are these roly polys. Well, I call them roly poly’s. What they are, is in fact Armadillidiidae. Try saying that real fast.

I think they are quite cute, and in the morning, there are TONS of them, very busily traversing the sidewalk upon which I tread to the door of my building.  I like to imagine they on their way to work, off to do some very important job, rushing the kids to this leaf or that, like school.  After all, what does one really know of the life of a roly poly? Not much, I would surmise, but if you’ve ever seen Pixars A Bugs Life, ya gotta wonder. I was being watched one day, by a colleague, who asked  after a few minutes if was a Buddhist, given my obvious reverence to my little travelers. I replied that I was not, in the traditional sense, but perhaps in the effort of sustaining the life of a roly poly, sure. Why not?

So I step, very carefully around the roly poly travelers. They make me happy.
Is that odd?

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Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Teaser

…….when you knew me I think I was some kind of wild thing, a slave to sensation and emotion, governed without the wisdom I now have in my later years. What happened to that girl you ask, where did she go?…she is still here, in some sense, still craving the subtleties of recklessness- still wanting to be something more than she is…..though many will say who she is now surpasses any imagined persona, they will say who she is now is beyond that misguided image of the pretty girl or the smart girl or the talented girl or even the wild girl….somehow she is all those, all at once, like a kaleidescope, brilliant and genius in it’s making….

-from the upcoming novel, The Imaginary Thing (working title) by Melissa Lopez (Copywrite 2009)

(I’ve been toying with the notion of writing an actual novel for quite some time. I’m taking the plunge! I hope it doesn’t suck!)

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Wednesday, April 1, 2009

My daughters do the sweetest things.

I awake each morning to hugs and cuddles, and The Little Woman is always sneaking little notes into my day. Emails, text messages, stickies (she LOVES stickies!) little cards left on my pillow that say “sweet dreams mom, I love you”. My heart is so full in that very moment that I have to go into her room and hug her, and even though she is fast asleep, tucked in warm under the covers, I cannot help but hug her and kiss her and whisper thank you….she smiles in her sleep when I do this. When I drop her off at school, she blows kisses, and I drive off smiling.

Internet, I don’t know what I have ever done to deserve this bounty of unlimited unrestrained affection- but I do know that I could not ever ask for more than I have in this little life of mine.

My cup runeth over.

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Monday, March 30, 2009

What the eff, right? Exactly where have I been??
No where, really. Sick, kinda. Occupied with work, and an interview for a seriously cool spot that I cannot even tell you about. Round this time of year, (Lent), I tend to quiet down a little, become reflective, perhaps a little more aware of the very imperfect thing that is the human condition.

I read the second book by Anne Rice, in the Christ the Lord series, which focuses on the human-ness of Christ, and I thought it was enlightening. I’m looking forward to more of her writing.

I watched 3:10 to Yuma last night…I liked it. Christian Bale sure can perfect the dirty sweaty look though, can’t he? (and not in a good way, lol). 

Ohh….I finally caved to the pressure that is Facebook! Its been fun finding old friends from high school. Wanna be my friend?? Wanna? lol

Ugh. I have nothing much to say. Nothing creative, nothing terribly exciting. Just another day in the life. Oh! I can share this, one of my favorite songs as of late by Paris Combo.

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Thursday, March 19, 2009

Musings

Something interesting happened to me the other day, in which I was sitting with someone very dear, and he began to recount some of the most precious moments in my life. It happened almost quietly at first, the subtle “remember when” and before I knew it I was in tears. You remember? Really? It wasn’t all just some dream that I had, some 15 odd years ago? Because I usually feel like the only one who remembers….

I don’t know where to go, with this new-found information, that I am not the only one who remembers. It’s disquieting, somehow. Perhaps I should just accept it as one of those gifts, a random blessing, and leave it at that. I do think, however, that this quote applies quite succinctly when relating the past to the present….

“What you need to know about the past is that no matter what has happened, it has all worked together to bring you to this very moment. And this is the moment you can choose to make everything new. Right now.”
~Author Unknown

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Saturday, March 14, 2009

My Tween got to go to a friends house for a sleepover this week. It was preceeded by many Mom Pleeeeeeeeeeeese’s and puppy dog eyes and squeals of happiness when I finally said yes. The fabulousness which ensued is detailed as such, as captured directly from a Tween in Motion.

1. OMG we went to the mall, and saw a life! size! Edward! (from Twilight) and OMG, we had to scream!!

2. OMG Gabby got her hair cut. And highlighted. I need a hair cut! And highlights! Why can’t I have highlights? What do you mean I have to wait till I am older? Why? But why? Whyyyyyyyyyyyy????

3. O.M.G Mom! we’regoingtobeinatalentshow,andmaybewe’llsingormaybewe’lldanceormaybeboth! (At light speed, accompanied by appropriate hand gestures and facial expressions).

The sleepover was a success, and while The Little Woman missed her big sister terribly, I think she was very happy to have some all to herself momma time.

I have one last thing to leave you with, which I will warn is somewhat controversial, but which I hope will generate some interesting posting and conversation– note- please no hate-mongering. We at Mind of Melis have a non-hate-mongering policy.

With that, observe this comment (and/or read the entire article here, from the Christian Science Monitor) about the pervieved potential decline of evangelism in the modern day.

“Ironically, the billions of dollars we’ve spent on youth ministers, Christian music, publishing, and media has produced a culture of young Christians who know next to nothing about their own faith except how they feel about it.

Our young people have deep beliefs about the culture war, but do not know why they should obey scripture, the essentials of theology, or the experience of spiritual discipline and community. Coming generations of Christians are going to be monumentally ignorant and unprepared for culture-wide pressures.

What do you think about that? I’ll go out on a limb and say that being raised in the Catholic faith, I cannot help but see some merit to this statement. In my very (VERY) humble opinion, it seems like much of modern theological application is heavily rooted in the prosperity doctrine, and “feeling good” about it all.

I can see the value in facets of modern Christianity, but I do think that there is a significant difference from the traditional theological practice of sacrifice, and attaining a higher faith through hardship and trial, in addition to that which we rejoice in. Somehow that message seems to have gotten lost in the shuffle.

Any thoughts?

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Monday, March 9, 2009

One, 2, and three

One:
I have been beseiged by allergies, which have rendered my tastebuds useless. Which is a problem, because I am an Eater, and do like the tasty morsels, and not being able to taste anything makes me want to assault my tounge with only the most extreme of flavors. Curry, red chile, sour lemons….I had some mediterranean Terra chips (oh so lovely and delish) and they are my most favorites of all things chip like, very salty and savory and Internet, it was a sad situation, for I did not truly enjoy them.
And then of course there is the not being able to breathe, general crappe feeling of drug resistant allergies, but since I am posting that notion as an afterthought, clearly I have made known that which is paramount in terms of disappointment.

2:
What was 2 going to be? I forget…perhaps 2 is the fact that I cannot remember what 2 was. Yeah. That’s it.

three: I have a upcoming trip to the Mexican Riviera (The MexiRivi, woo hoo!) with several of my favorite people and I am very excited. It will be nice to not have to work, worry about anything, be on a schedule or deal with that which annoys or aggravates.

I will, however, miss my children mightily. But! Mexi Rivi! Oh yeah!

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