Saturday, February 28, 2009

RECOMMENDATION OF THE HIGHEST ORDER

I have just finished an incredible book.

There are times when I find my faith rejuvenated by the most subtle of things. They way the sun warms my face reminds me of God. The sound of a bird singing, or the sight of my children. This week I was in church for a funeral and Father asked us all to do something important. To listen. Listen.

Last night I finished this book about Jesus as a child- as a boy of 7 years old, and Internet, I found myself listening. The messages are so simple, and surround us entirely. Believers or non-believers would take something from this book. If you are so inclined, I highly recommend you read— and of course, listen. If you have thoughts to share- I would love to hear them.

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Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Small Thought

There’s a woman and two young girls out to dinner, at one of those fast food asian bistro places. The woman looks happy, but a little over-worked after a long week at the office. The two young girls bicker for a second, and realize their grumbling tummies are to blame. With a tray of Orange chicken, terriyake, steamed rice and some veggies, they make their way through the crowded restaurant, picking a spot in the corner.

Not far away, an elderly man sits, painstakingly working chopsticks around the fried rice and vegetables. His clothes are pressed, though he doesn’t have a warm coat on such a cool evening, and he wears a baseball cap over long brown hair. His beard is combed through, though un-even, and the woman finds herself wondering if he is homeless, or maybe living out of a shelter.

On the overhead speakers, strains of a John Lennon song play. She likes this song and mentions to the girls that the singer was part of a group called The Beatles, and hearing the music makes her smile.
The elderly man looks up, having caught this bit of conversation and smiles slowly, as if agreeing.

Dinner almost at an end, the woman wonders if she could offer him a few dollars, but not being certain, not knowing for sure if he needs it- or doesn’t and would take offense- she hesitates. The girls are passing out fortune cookies- one for each of them, and the woman leans over, and speaks.

“Would you like a fortune cookie?”
“Thank you”, he replies, taking the cookie, smiling quietly again. “My last fortune wasn’t so good”.
“Maybe this one will be better” she says, saying a small prayer inside.  He nods his head carefully, as if mulling over the possibility, then gathers his things, and walks out the door.

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Monday, February 16, 2009

25 Random Things

1. I must admit to loving these random thing things, they’re fun.
2. I have been burning a rose candle all day, and it smells like someone actually got me roses for Valentines Day EVEN THOUGH NO ONE DID.
3. I spend too much time playing pool online.
4. While I love and adore the idea of an immaculately clean and organized house, ironically, I am the one that prevents that from happening.
5. Dark chocolate reminds me of Christmas.
6. Work is kicking my ass in such  a manner that I do not even turn on my computer when I get home, thus explaining why I have not posted in awhile.
7. I sometimes wonder how my kids can watch the same Disney tv show over and over again and still laugh.
8. I kinda hate those Disney shows.
9. I tried being a vegetarian and it lasted about a month and a half.
10. I found a book of collected works by Gabriel Garcia Marquez that I thought was lost for about a year. Cannot wait to read it.
11. I do not have a Facebook page, unlike lots of people who do.
12. I cannot stand it when My Tween counters every decision I make with an illogical BUT WHY???? and then flops all over the place in tween angst that makes me want to stick her in a closet.
13. I would never stick My Tween in a closet. Calm down.
14. My lucky number is 3. I love 3.
15. I love to sleep late.
16. It’s hard to fill one of these 25 Things out, without actual prompts or questions.
17. My dear friend Nic got to take her Teeny Tiny home from the hospital this week, and I have been christened Auntie M. I cannot handle how fabulous both of those things are.
18. I actually know someone who gets to audition for Cirque du Soleil. I think that is completely awesome.
19. I am in love with high end product.
20. Oh thank goodness I am almost at 25.
21. I love the guys on Big Bang Theory. They are deliciously geeky.
22. My favorite shows that I DVR these days are- L Word, Big Love, US of Tara, and Big Bang.
23. I am hungry kinda. Will maybe cook up some pasta.
24. I cannot wait to make enough money to buy a new house.
25. I want you to do a 25 Things, and if you do, let me know!!

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Monday, February 9, 2009

The poet in me adores the lyrics to this song….

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Tuesday, February 3, 2009

The random….

1. I wish I was crafty. I scroll on-line through pages and pages of darling ideas for cute little valentines, home decorating, nursery inspiration, you name it. I grab decorating magazines, and drool over ideas that sound like perfection itself, yet when it comes all down to the execution, Internet, ….nothing.
Am I lazy? Do I have a mental block? Is it a case of the notion, the very idea, being so much more appealing than the actual effort and subsequent result??? Thank God for Etsy, no matter the case!

2. I connected with two darling friends today, who read my blog and exclaimed with joy that they loved it and it was by far their favorite blog in the whole wide world! Or web, as the case may be. OK so they didn’t really say that, but they did like it and I’ll take my kudos where I can get them. (Hi Bel! Hi Lib! Love you!)

3. I have a thought I want to share about relationships. There’s a lot of heartbreak going around these days- and an incredible amount of pressure to be coupled. And it’s everywhere I look- online web sites, tv commercials, you name it. Find the right one for you! Be happy with someone! Yet the appalling staggering statistics show that 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce. And the fact is that finding someone is sometimes not as complicated as keeping someone. So I ask you. Why can’t we be encouraged to fall in love with ourselves? Why does the notion that someone has to “complete me” in order for me to be complete prevail in today’s society?

I don’t pretend to be immune to the hype. Make no mistake, I have had my share of succumbing to the very persuasive eH ad on tv, that makes it look like finding someone compatible is easy as pie. But I resent the implication as a whole, that we cannot be happy unless we are involved with someone. Maybe it’s all about finding balance??? What do you think?

(Yes that was me encouraging comments. Lurkers….come out come out wherever you are!)

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